QMy boyfriend of two years can’t climax or maintain an erection unless his testicles are handled, squeezed, pulled, or pressed on (preferably with my stockinged foot or knee). Needless to say, intercourse does not work very well, and our sexual repertoire is rather limited, which is frustrating for both of us. His doctor says his ED is not physiological. I’ve read your advice on “death grip” masturbation and suspect it’s a variation of that. I would love to try to “rewire” him; we’ve started trying to conceive, so we need him to ejaculate successfully at least a few times per cycle (to increase our chances, but also for sperm health). We’re in our mid-30s, so I don’t want to wait months for him to increase his sensitivity. What would you suggest? —Almost Resigned to a Turkey Baster
QMy husband has seen a professional dominatrix for more than a decade. We’ve gotten to know her socially—she’s a lovely person—but I feel she should stop charging my husband for sessions, as we are now friends. She is a “lifestyle dominant” and enjoys her job. —The Vanilla Wife
QI’m considering having a threesome with a couple, but the friend I routinely confide in about my sexual adventures has warned me against it. She had a threesome once, and it didn’t go well—there were jealousy issues that resulted in some hurt feelings and heartbreak—and now I don’t know if I should risk it. I’m a guy, and the couple in question is M/F. —This Hesitation Is Really Draining
