Q I’m a 25-year-old straight guy. Last month, I was in the locker room at my gym. It was 4 AM, and I was the only one around. I was getting ready to leave, when I noticed someone exiting the showers. He kinda caught me looking (he was very well endowed), and I quickly turned my head, embarrassed. About 20 seconds later, he came around the corner and said, “Hey, how ya doin’?” He was still naked, and it was obvious that he was wondering if I wanted to try something. (Trust me—he was about ten or 11 inches now!) I didn’t know what to think, so I just got the hell out of there as fast as I could. I’ve never been with a guy before, but for the past few weeks, I can’t stop thinking about it. I kinda wish I hadn’t left so fast. I guess I’m really turned on by the size, and curious about maybe trying oral? That’s all I’m curious about trying, nothing else. I am way more attracted to girls than guys, but I can’t shake these thoughts. —Panic at the Dick, So?

Q I can orgasm without stimulating my clitoris—but only through anal sex. What gives? —A Nosy Admiring Lass

A What I’m about to propose may seem elaborate, QPQ, but bear this in mind while you read my advice: marijuana is legal where I live.